The Four Tendencies

I've mentioned how much I've learned from Gretchen Rubin's writing and podcast. So today I want to tell you about what first got me interested in and reading/listening to her work. I took the Four Tendencies Quiz. In this quiz, you answer questions and then it determines whether you are an upholder, an obliger, a questioner, or a rebel. The difference between the four has to do with how you best meet expectations (whether outer or inner). I learned I was an obliger, which means I tend to do great at meeting outer expectations, but struggle with meeting inner expectations. So in order to help myself meet inner expectations, it's helpful to create some kind of outer accountability (which I've done with this blog and posting on Facebook). The framework is really interesting and I strongly encourage everyone to take the quiz and learn more about the Four Tendencies. Once you take the quiz, come back and let us know what your tendency is!

You can take the quiz here: https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/