These are the items I decided (or had) to change on my 20 for 2020 list:
#3: Chicago concert: Well, I am going to replace this one with a not at all fun, but an important one. I need to talk to an attorney and get the Power of Attorney/Advance directive paperwork re-done since Tom is gone.
#2 and #7: Blaze and Zoey for a weekend and science museum: There is still time for these, so I am going to try hard to get it done. If I am not able to have them visit for a weekend, then I will make sure I get to go see them as frequently as possible.
The other ones I am going to keep trying to get done and re-evaluate again at the end of October to see if I want/need to make any further changes.